You not already know but we’re having a wake of sorts at the Glebe Farm tea rooms it’s directly after the ceremony, over the other side of the A14 junction 7, NN16 8XF From 15:30 onwards, all welcome

Lots of happy memories of my visiting Aunty Janis and Uncle Ian when I was little with my mum, dad and sister. She would always come into their living room when we were all there, carrying a big tray of cups of tea and plenty of biscuits for us all! Very kind and generous over the years with our birthdays and Christmas, and then for our daughter Emily too. A very lovely lady. We will always remember her. Rest In Peace Aunty Janis xxxx

Death is too negative for me, so I’ll be popping off for a long cup of tea. Do splash out on two bags in the pot and for my sake, keep the water hot! Laughing, chatting and sharing a brew, remembering with love the happy times we shared with you. Fly high Janis. xx You’ll remain in our hearts forever.

Although we did not know you very well Janis, we do know that Ian and your family thought the world of you. You were courageous to the end, keeping Ian in check all the time! Rest in peace and free of pain xx

Should you be unable to attend but want to follow tomorrow’s ceremony, this can be arranged - message myself (07743065698) to be provided with the link

Janis and Gerald were my cousins and l have happy memories of going to their house to watch Top of the Pops as my dad didn't like " all that noise " remember dancing around the living room while Aunt Margo disappeared into the kitchen, we became quite expert at what was going to be in the charts. Remember also us all going potato picking in the summer holidays, she was a lovely lady and l feel very privileged to have had her on my life.

Auntie Janis you were such a lovely person always smiling laughing I have lovely memories of visiting you and uncle Ian and Matthew Daniel and Lauren when I was a youngster many years ago! I have a fond memory of being in your kitchen and getting so excited over your soda stream machine! You always remembered me at birthdays and Christmas time and as I went on to have my own children you always remembered them too. Thoughts to all your family sleep tight auntie Janis love from Jayne and family xxx

When Janis and Ian became a couple - a lifetime ago now - she quickly became part of our family. Mum and dad adored her, and she was like another, much loved, sister to the rest of us girls. When they decided to get married, we were all excited and delighted. Mum and dad couldn't believe their (and Ian's!) luck that Janis would be their daughter-in-law. Janis was unfailingly respectful, loving and kind to mum and dad, especially as their health deteriorated and they both died close together at a comparatively young age. I remember hearing Janis quietly crying as she made tea for us all in mum's kitchen just after she died. When Matthew, Daniel and Lauren were born, Janis' happiness was complete. When the grandchildren arrived, they were the cherry on the top, and all adored. Her beloved family were her universe, and although a busy wife and mother, never forgot anyone's important dates and anniversaries. She always waved visitors off from her front door, waiting until we drove off before she went inside, whatever the weather. This continued until the very end, even when she was exhausted and had to be wheeled to the door. Also, even when very ill and struggling to talk, she asked after everybody, taking an interest in our lives. Everyone who met Janis liked and respected her. Those of us who were privileged to know her well not only liked and respected her too, but loved her. She was a genuinely good, kind, decent, caring person, and we need more like her. In fact, we could all do with being a bit more Janis! Go with our love, Janis: you will live on in our hearts and minds always.

Like anyone who was privileged to have known Janis, I am finding it hard to come to terms with the loss of my very dear friend. Our friendship goes back 50 years to when we both worked at Reliance Systems in Wellingborough. I deeply regret that geography meant that we didn't see much of each other in recent years. But we kept in touch and I will always savour the memory of her warmth, her open, easy going nature, her sense of fun and her devotion to her beloved family. RIP lovely friend.

As a family we are coming to terms, as best we know how, with losing Mum. As little consolation as it is, knowing the daily discomfort and struggle with the disease is over for Mum does linger in our minds. But in the interest of not allowing the MND to dominate the conversation about the wonderful Lady our Mum was, and fondly remembering all the great times, please share your memories with us here if you have time? Be at peace now Mum. We will love you always. Xx

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